20 & Learning How to Ask for Help
If you are prideful like me, asking for help is very challenging. But one thing I’m learning is closed mouths don’t get fed. You have to bee willing to set your pride aside, ask for help and get what you want.
Ego and pride can get in the way of being great. I had to learn a lot over the years that you can’t let those two words affect your growth as an adult. If you don’t have it, but you have the resources you have to ask. The worst thing someone can say is “No.”
My story: I remember last summer I was asked to do a huge press event at Tyrese’s house. During that time I was going through a lot and was financially a mess. I didn’t have any gas money at all but I was afraid to ask friends and family. I remember my friend Shaneka went in on me afterward in regards to me being prideful and not asking for help.
After that day, I’ve learned to just ask. If you don’t have it, ask people that you trust. If you can’t ask the people who you hang around for help, then you need to reevaluate the people in your life.
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